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February 15, 2015 at 12:50 pm #927
Im so bored with my husband. Its the same thing day in day out.The kids give me some fun sometimes i cant wait for him to travel and be out of the house. All he does is sit on the couch, eat, and watch football and that’s it.The conversation is the same how was your day? Thats it. He is great with the kids, but feel like a roomate
February 15, 2015 at 12:53 pm #928
Sounds exactly like my husband!! I try all the time to get him to talk, go out, do something to add some fun to our marriage, but nothing works. He only talks about work, we never go out alone. All he does is watch tv & play a stupid game on his phone. I feel so alone in our marriage. We’ve only been married 5 years & there is no romance or excitement
February 15, 2015 at 12:55 pm #929
What did you do when you dated? marriage is work, my dear…. if you want to keep it interesting, you have to put in effort.Good luck
February 15, 2015 at 12:59 pm #930
I feel u! My husband acts like he doesn’t understand why I feel alone, depressed & sad most of the time. He doesn’t get it that all I want is for him to show some love & attention. My dh doesn’t care if we hug, kiss or have sex anymore. He never compliments me or says anything loving. It’s hard to be loving toward him some days. I try so hard to look beautiful & do things for him but he never notices. When I ask why he says that we’re married so all that stuff doesn’t matter anymore. I just don’t understand why some men think romance doesn’t matter after you get married & have kids.
February 15, 2015 at 1:05 pm #931
Copied from an email I got a long time ago – it has
improved my relationship
At a subconscious level they pick up the negative
frequency or vibe you are sending. You can tell
when someone is not happy with you, you can
sense it in a room.
The work to improving the relationship between
you and your partner is to STOP sending off
negative vibrations to your partner.
So how do you do it? How do you stop yourself
from the habit? First of all … awareness.
Remember, every time you do think something
negative or say something you are going to get
more of it. So keep reminding yourself that you are
Next, focus on the things you do love about your
spouse. Do this constantly if you have to.
Remember when you were first dating and the
passion in those weeks and months? Your
memory is very powerful and you can reactivate
those emotions at any time. Just like it happened
So once a day in your journal or in a quiet moment,
focus on those moments you had with your
partner. Breath in and let out any negative
thoughts. Just allow the love to reignite inside.
The love you have for your partner is always there
you just have to focus on it. Now what you have is
a more loving attitude with your partner again so
as a result you will respond differently to the way
It is YOU that changes your vibration , your
responses, your thoughts and actions.
Then it is a choice for your partner to change their
response and mirror back to you this love or not.
They may take more time to get used to this new
version of you so keep it up.
This new attitude can be used in all your relationships: kids, boss, mother in law