“I told my boy friend that I’m pregnant a few days ago. He told me that I should get an abortion and now he won’t talk to me. I just don’t understand. I thought he loved me. What should I do?” -Patience

Here are a few responses from some mums:

“I  think you need to consider your options and if you are ready to take on such a huge responsibility on  your own. If he is refusing to talk to you now there is no guarantee that when he does it will be because he had a change of heart.” -Ella

I have a friend whose boyfriend did the same thing. Guess what their son is now two and he has never seen him. Still neither him nor his family want anything to do with her or the baby.” -Lade

“He can love you and not want a child. How long have you two been together? Have you ever talked about getting married or having kids? I don’t understand how you won’t know somebody very well first before sleeping with him. As for what you should do only you can decide that. Ask God for forgiveness”- Kachi

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